Living with lies. More insidious in marriage than an act of infidelity?
Losing the Habit of Self-Care
Why putting yourself last is a bad idea.
Making Marriage Work
Making marriage work… or possibly, making divorce work.
Does Your Marital Status Define You?
The cultural hierarchy of marital status. Judging accordingly. We all do it.
Letting Go
Reinvention through dreams of life before and after divorce, processing the post-marital landscape.
The Marriage Agenda in Divorce Data
What do we believe about marriage and divorce data?
Kim Kardashian Divorce: Anything to Do With You or Me?
What could the latest celebrity breakup have to do with you – or me? Or our children, for that matter? You’d have to be living under a rock not to have heard about socialite-reality TV star Kim Kardashian’s mega-watt wedding, and just 72 days later, her filing for divorce. 72 days, as of yesterday, when […]
Do You Fight Fair?
You’re dying to let loose and say what you really think but the words aren’t pretty so you’re biting your tongue. Whatever it is – you don’t say it. Because if you do – you can’t take it back. And you know that fighting fair is a sort of winning, in and of itself. Fighting […]
Jennifer Lopez – “Feeling Good”
I couldn’t resist this headline: “Jennifer Lopez says she’s happy” – with a quick summary that took me to a longer article reporting that JLo says she “feels good.” Hey, I didn’t write it, and I don’t believe it. Do you? But I clicked on the article all the same, and then I read, and […]
Which is Worse – Death or Divorce?
On grieving a lost spouse, a lost marriage, and lost dreams.