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Will You Vote Like Your Spouse? (Politics and Partnership)
When political differences predict more than the outcome of elections.
Mean Magnetism
When looks overcome our better judgment about the bad guys…
Beyond Limerence, Or, Why I’m Glad I’m Not Madly in Love
Mad love, lasting love, and why I know my personal preference.
Skirmishing. Obfuscating. Living a Version of Chaos Theory.
Chaos as lifestyle. Chaos as strategy.
The Unbroken Heart, the Marriage Container, the Marriage Trap
The reality of marriage… and divorce, for some.
“Leaving to Survive”
When marriage becomes a battlefield, how long do we put up the good fight?
Bittersweet
When he returns from nine months in Europe, he unpacks two boxes from his luggage and sets them on the kitchen counter. I recognize them immediately. My emotions are a jumble. Pleasure. Sadness. Suddenly, I feel older. I admit I’d hoped he might do this. Sometimes, he’s thoughtful that way, or perhaps he knows me […]
Cher Jean-Marc (Blue Shutters, Red Flowers)
Evening, September 14, 1988 Cher Jean-Marc, The jet lag has me a little foggy, but you were right about us and I wanted to tell you so. I worried that I was being naive in listening to your explanation and you tell me all the time, still, how young and trusting I am. After the […]
Judge Not, Lest… Well, You Know How It Goes.
From girl gossip to women judging.