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You are here: Home / Lifestyle / When You’re Running Late, Stop Running

When You’re Running Late, Stop Running

December 4, 2013 by D. A. Wolf 6 Comments

You know those life lessons you need to remember, though you forget them constantly? Basics, like if you’re running late and rushing, you’re more likely to be accident prone.

Woman in Glasses ThinkingI won’t say that I was running late last week when I dashed to the door to get in my walk early. However, I was certainly rushing!

When I slipped and sprained my ankle, it’s a perfect example of how foolish it is to continually cram too much into an overloaded schedule. Guilty as charged on that one, time and time again.

My desire to “change one thing” – a goal to initiate change – was to get that walk in no matter what. The problem, of course, was the “no matter what” aspect, and I was rushing to get the exercise into a very full Thanksgiving day.

A Tiny Inconvenience

At the moment, logistically inconvenienced – and really, that’s the extent of it – I’m nonetheless forced to slow down. The slowing down is not consistent with my temperament – (as if that isn’t clear to those who know me) – and it’s messing with my ability to accomplish what is my norm on the schedule that is my norm.

I am peeved, irked, chagrined… and realizing that expending energy on those emotions is silly and pointless. That I can’t holiday shop or do other errands is hardly the end of the world, and I need to accept another rhythm for another week, and hopefully that’s it.

Best of all – the life lesson!

I’m reminded that when you’re running late, it may make sense to stop running. You know – slow down, you move too fast! And sometimes, that means we miss something important, we don’t stop to enjoy, or as I mentioned, we’re prone to accidents.

Something Different (Fashion Fun?)

But I do have something a little different and fun – certainly for me – that’s on the schedule for today. My hip-hopping around the house has meant it’s taken considerably longer than originally planned, but I promise – it’s coming shortly!

I hope you’ll pop by in a little bit. There are pearls – not necessarily of wisdom. There’s color, and for a change, it isn’t red. There’s me being me, a side of myself I am trying to get more used to sharing. The face that goes with the words. The personal style that I’m most comfortable with. Yet another aspect of discovering who I am now, at this age and stage, not to mention what I want and what I enjoy.

Cryptic?

Oh, I don’t mean it to be.

Change is Good (So Is Changing Clothes)

But aren’t we always changing, tweaking who we are, reconfiguring who we need to be as life moves us along, and at least as important, as we nudge ourselves in new directions?

Aren’t we always able to benefit from the lessons we seem to need over and over again?

Woman Working from HomeIt’s about self awareness. It’s about forward movement. It’s about reinvention, though that’s a term that’s overused. It’s about the pleasure of change, and even changing… a career, a location, a status, a style, a set of options we may define for ourselves that begs to be expanded.

It may even be about changing clothes!

Working From Home Wardrobe

As for what’s up next, it’s something I enjoy. I adore fashion and it hasn’t been as much a part of my life these past few years. Working from a home office rather than a corporate one has its advantages, without question.

But it’s also too easy to slip into the habit of the same jeans and old sweater daily, which means we have to take the initiative to create occasions for dressing. Or, we dress a bit better even in the home office.

Since walking daily is momentarily off my “change one thing” list, I’m moving the pleasure of fashion and style to a higher priority precisely because it is pleasure. When I feel as though I look good, I feel good. When I know that I’m putting a few extra minutes into slipping into something pretty, I feel more confident. I’m ready to take on the world!

And in order to feel justified in donning a few of my favorite old (and new) things, I will be suggesting to a few friends that we head out more often – enjoying the season, an occasional drink, a cup of coffee in a bookshop… and you can bet, I’ll be dressing the part. And hopefully, very soon.

 

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Comments

  1. Judith A. Ross says

    December 4, 2013 at 3:39 pm

    You are so right! It is exactly when we are rushing around trying to beat the clock that we should instead, stop and think about what we are doing. Distraction can be dangerous! So sorry to hear about your ankle sprain. But, I can’t wait to see your next post!

    Planning my daily work outfit is the thing I miss the most about working in an office. I used to love trying to be a bit creative with my “professional” look.

    Bring it on!

    Reply
    • D. A. Wolf says

      December 4, 2013 at 3:44 pm

      That beat the clock thing. Exactly, Judith! And hobbling my way to bringing it on… 😉

      Reply
  2. Rudri Bhatt Patel @ Being Rudri says

    December 4, 2013 at 11:51 pm

    Wolf,

    I hope you are on the mend. Sometimes slowing down is the hardest thing to do. I have to remind myself to take a breath, soak in the present, and then move forward. Feel better!

    Reply
  3. Heather in Arles says

    December 5, 2013 at 10:54 am

    “…the pleasure of change…” Oooh, that phrase is such a challenge for me!
    And actually a lot of this has me ready to see what is next. Is it no wonder that I feel like a schlub because I wear yoga pants all day every day? Time to make an effort for me too!
    Feel better and see you later, gator!

    Reply
    • D. A. Wolf says

      December 5, 2013 at 11:00 am

      Thanks, Heather!

      Reply
  4. lisa says

    December 11, 2013 at 10:00 am

    How did I miss this post? Oh yeah, I was frantically running around! All joking aside, this is a wonderful post and reminder to slow down. We all pay lip service to that phrase, but sometimes life chooses to get our attention in the most inconvenient of ways, doesn’t it?! I came close to full-body shut down a few weeks ago and was forced to pull back and reassess. BTW, I called you out in my post today for the Liebster Award. It wasn’t an official *tag* but close! 🙂 xox

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