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Medical Myopia

July 14, 2015 by D. A. Wolf 10 Comments

Medicine is big business. We know that. Or maybe I should say — insurance and pharmaceuticals are big business. And both, when it comes to the little guy — that’s you and me — are very short-sighted.

Doctor in Hospital CorridorI won’t subject you to the play by play, but here is the gist of my latest healthcare system misadventures, and why I’m miffed and also dismayed — for all of us.

Let’s see… There’s chasing after co-pay refunds for bucks that shouldn’t have been collected in the first place… at multiple locations… Oh, the fun of the calls and messages and follow-up… And don’t you just adore automated phone systems?

There’s the expense and confusion of going doctor to doctor for what is routine, or used to be, and would once have been handled by a single GP with no muss, no fuss, and a quick-and-easy answer…

And now this latest entertainment, which is surely my new favorite. The prescription runaround over “corporate policy.” In other words, pharmacies being chains (and big business), they enter into agreements to carry certain (medical) products. Just business, right? That means they may cease to carry a (routine) med that you (routinely) take, and then… drum roll please… you show up to pick up your prescription and they can’t give it to you.

“Sorry,” a smiling pharmacist says. “We don’t carry that any more.”

You blink and say “Excuse me?”

“We can offer you a similar med in its place. Our generic.”

“I tried that several years ago,” you say politely (but feeling your blood pressure rise). “It didn’t work. One of the inactive ingredients. That’s why we went back to the original that does work.”

“I’m very sorry,” he says again. “It’s corporate policy.”

“But this is a prescription,” you say. “I don’t see why you can’t just order it because you’ve always ordered it before.”

“Corporate policy,” he repeats, and you feel your fists balling up and your nails pressing into your palms and you hear the pitch of your voice rise. And the pain you’re in feels somehow more intense. Perhaps because your whole body is stiffening with anger.

“So what do I do? I have a prescription I need filled.”

“Try other pharmacies.”

Right.

Suffice it to say, I wasn’t happy… I began what I suspect will be a multi-day process of locating a medication that I know works, that I can actually afford, and that agrees with my system (frequently not the case). So I left my usual pharmacy and tried another near by, only to be told the same thing after standing in a long line just to show them my prescription and ask about the med.

That particular pharmacist saw me misting up and said he would attempt to special order it, but he doubted the order would go through. (I have yet to hear back.) If the special order doesn’t go through, I have to return to that pharmacy and take the physical prescription order and try somewhere else, and so on, and so on…

We won’t discuss the hours I’ve already wasted in this pursuit (and the hours into the night that I’ve had to stay up and make up the time relative to my work tasks)… And we won’t discuss my bewilderment and anger at the very thought of someone who might not have the flexibility I do — in other words, working into the night — much less a car to drive around the city looking for a pharmacy to provide the med.

I may indeed be forced to try several other “versions” and hope one works… If not, I will be required to return to the doctor’s office (hello, $40 charge), if I can even get an appointment…

Allow me to add that every physician I’ve seen in the past years except one (for the many routine items) has said that I must reduce my stress.

Uh-huh. And if the physicians and the healthcare system are exacerbating my stress — how do I resolve that?

Silly me. Antidepressants, of course. After all, any woman over 40 who has a complaint should be drugged into smiling, right?

One last mention — and an upside. (Yes, there is an upside. More than one. But not yet…)

Let’s all tsk tsk and furrow our brows as we note this country’s absence of computerized systems when it comes to medical recordkeeping — not just from city to city (or state to state), but within a single city from clinic to clinic or hospital system to hospital system. Frankly, even within certain hospital systems.

Care to count the number of times you’ve written precisely the same details of name and address, insurance information, and basics of medical history — on paper, on a clipboard, over and over again? May I mention that I did so again this morning, having provided most of the same information on the phone to the same provider? Shall we mention how potentially inconsistent, inaccurate and inefficient this absence of automated systems is?

And now, for the upside. Three upsides, in fact.

Upside Number One: All the really scary reasons for my chronic pain turned up negative. (I couldn’t be more thrilled and relieved and grateful.)

Upside Number Two: One of the meds that worked for me about six years back (and helped with pain besides) became too expensive for me to get. It was recommended again, but it is still too expensive. The PA gave me a pile of her prescription samples free of charge. On that one, I had to fight back the tears of gratitude.

Upside Number Three: Although the doctor was running late, that’s usually not something I get upset over. It tells me that he or she actually takes time with patients, which is a good sign. When I was finally ushered in to see a PA first, then a technician, then eventually the doctor… I couldn’t have been more impressed. All three were extremely professional, extremely thorough in asking questions (and not by rote), and very pleasant.

And the doctor himself took tremendous time and care not only in examining me, but in explaining what was going on.

I have seen a crazy number of crappy doctors in the past nine or ten years. You literally never know what (quality, skill level) you’re going to get when you make an appointment, as many of the ‘good’ doctors may not take whatever insurance you have, or you’re passed along through ‘the system’ to whatever specialist handles backs or arms or… Pick a part of your anatomy and fill in the blank.

A relationship with a doctor?

Very difficult. With few exceptions, in my experience… rare these days.

I find it shocking and mortifying that a so-called developed country has physicians who literally do not even touch a patient. Perhaps the number of mediocre doctors that I’ve seen (around chronic pain issues) makes a good doctor seem exceptional, or, I may have actually seen an exceptional physician today.

An exceptional physician with an equally superb medical staff.

What I know is this. For the first time in several years, I have a small amount of hope that there is a solution to some of the pain that I live with, which has been worsening steadily such that my usual process of compartmentalizing is not doing the job. But hope is a magical thing. I’m good with hope.

I can even deal (semi-politely) with chasing around for a damn prescription because the profit motive of some fat cat Big Pharma guy and fat cat insurance guy and all their fucking fat cat friends renders the lives of “regular people” like you and me and God knows how many millions of others unnecessarily complicated and expensive. Or simply, laced with pain.

What baffles me is this — how anyone in government and anyone with half a brain (whatever their role in our lives) doesn’t realize that we would be a kinder, gentler, more productive citizenry if health were considered a basic human right.

You know. Like it is in real “first world” countries.

 

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Comments

  1. La Contessa says

    July 14, 2015 at 4:08 pm

    I know. SO frustrating!!! Sorry you are having difficulties with The System!!! There is no more Common sense in the world!!!

    Reply
  2. Wendy Burnett says

    July 15, 2015 at 1:07 am

    This, just . . . . this. I’d be up the creek without a paddle if I had a script for something like that. Working 2 jobs, with no car? Not possible to run hither and yon to try to find someone who carries a particular med, especially if it’s something they won’t talk to you about over the phone. (Hubby has ADD and used to be on Adderal – you have to physically show up at the pharmacy, or they just tell you they don’t have it.) Have you tried a hospital pharmacy? They tend to carry a wider range of medications, and if your doc has privileges, they should be willing to honor his scripts.

    Reply
  3. RON says

    July 15, 2015 at 12:05 pm

    Good Stuff here D.A.:

    I don’t like to sound like a “Hater and Skeptic” now in my senior years BUT:

    All the people that we admired and respected and thought were the absolute “Role Models” to follow and emulate when we were younger turned out to be Criminals, Perverts, and Dirtbags who should be in prisons! They include: Doctors, Lawyers, Clergy, Educators, Professional Athletes, Entertainers, Corporate CEOs, and last but certainly NOT least………. “Parasite Politicians.”

    It is getting to be that the ONLY creatures on this earth that we can trust, love, and wish to be with are……OUR PET DOGS!!!!! Man’s Best Friend!!

    Reply
  4. Sue B says

    July 15, 2015 at 12:30 pm

    Sorry that you are having all this “sh*t” in your life on top of the health issue. Happy that you’ve found a good GP. Last fall Hubby and I chased around to several pharmacies looking for a specific medication he needed for a rather serious eye injury. At one pharmacy the young pharmacy tech condescended to him, speaking slowly in that tone that said “see how patient I’m being” when she was clearly not. And said those words that I really hate coming from someone in a “service” job…. “What you really have to understand, is that I’m very busy and I can’t…..blah, blah, blah.”

    When Hubby looked about to blow a gasket, I stepped in and said…”No actually we don’t need to understand your situation. We’re the clients. YOU need to take a minute to listen to what we’re saying and try to understand OUR needs. That’s how it works. And a friendlier tone wouldn’t go amiss either.” Oh that felt good!

    We didn’t get our prescription there either…but we felt a little bit better. And I called the store the next day and asked to speak to the “Pharmacist Owner” and complained. So often these days I wonder where the “care” has gone in the health care “business.”

    Reply
    • D. A. Wolf says

      July 15, 2015 at 1:03 pm

      Excellent point, Sue. I think you’re right that in too many cases, the “care” has gone out of healthcare…

      Reply
  5. Angela Muller says

    July 15, 2015 at 1:56 pm

    I have managed to stay with the same family-owned pharmacy for decades, primarily because they have managed to stay in business…thanks to great customer service and a caring relationship with customers. They can get me whatever I need, although, I do have to go somewhere else to buy groceries and hardware products,

    Reply
  6. Larry says

    July 15, 2015 at 5:06 pm

    Good for you for finding these upsides despite the frustration you were clearly feeling.
    Having a good doctor is priceless. We go to him/her in times of need and when they can give us more than pure medical advice – well, that’s meaningful.

    I hope you can be properly diagnosed and get the medicine you need.

    Reply
  7. Curtis says

    July 19, 2015 at 1:49 pm

    I am sorry to hear this. Health care truly changed to the health care industry, and now is the medical industry. I find it shocking that pharmacies do not carry the original drugs as this is business and just a matter of money. Now they just carry their generics as corporate policy?

    In other countries, as you are aware, they can be covered, partially covered or not covered at all by the government medical plans. That said, sometimes expensive or new drugs are not available at all. As Pharmacy chains consolidate this is even more concerning.

    Forms may not be attributed to an automated system but rather a gate keeping or barrier function.

    Finding a good doctor is always a challenge wherever you are. Hopefully you found a good one. I have been lucky. One doctor when I was a child and one as an adult literally saved me from becoming quite ill and dying. Unfortunately one is long retired and the other one passed away. That said, I will be forever grateful. Now I see a friend’s son – I guess that officially makes me old.

    Reply
    • D. A. Wolf says

      July 19, 2015 at 2:02 pm

      To find a good physician, Curtis, even a friend’s son (*grin*), is — for some of us — the exception. It is indeed a piece of good fortune!

      Reply
  8. batticus says

    August 15, 2015 at 5:55 pm

    Looking at it from outside of your country, the US health care system looks to be a hodge-podge of for-profit companies with the ability to affect a person’s life from the accounting department rather than from medical reasons. Your health-care system does have the side-effect that elite places like the Mayo Clinic can exist and be used by people from all around the world; medical imaging is another area where it is handy to be able to jump the queue at a US private clinic at a price that is affordable to a normal person. With that said, universal health care systems have their own flaws, waiting lists are a fact of life for the top specialists, imaging, or even surgeries (hip/knee replacements are an example, they are not life-threatening and can be displaced for more critical surgeries). The good part is that you can go to the doctor anytime you need to without worrying about what it will cost; I have a physical/blood test each year and preventative screening is available if I have a family history or lifestyle predictor for disease.

    My elderly parents don’t have supplementary health insurance (I get vision, prescriptions, physio benefits at work) but with special senior government benefits they can purchase drugs at a discount, while their view of the health care system is a Chevrolet rather than a Cadillac, they don’t have to worry about losing their home even though my dad has a condition that would likely bankrupt a senior couple in the US. I think this kind of piece of mind has to help people live better with less stress.

    Reply

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