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You are here: Home / Parenting / Celebrate the Good Women in Your Life

Celebrate the Good Women in Your Life

May 7, 2016 by D. A. Wolf 3 Comments

As Mother’s Day approaches, some of us welcome the weekend with anticipation and pleasure. Others find this holiday to be tinged with regret or sorrow.

3 Generations of WomenWhatever the relationship with our mothers, living or not, most of us can point to women in our lives whom we choose to celebrate.

These women may be friends and neighbors, colleagues and mentors, daughters and sisters, aunts and grandmothers, nieces, teachers, and other members of our many communities in which we discover individuals to respect, admire, and love.

The reasons we love them of course are as varied as they are, and likewise, the many roles they play in our lives. If we’re fortunate, we value them for their smarts, wisdom, kindness, compassion, companionship. They model curiosity, initiative, ambition, achievement, perseverance, judgment.

They help us become who we are.

May we also keep in mind the often challenging role of a stepmother? May we understand the special skills it takes to successfully navigate the sometimes sensitive issues that arise in blended families?

In honoring these good women, let’s remember to fête a Happy UN-Mother’s Day as well, appreciating that we do not all have children who treat us to cards and kisses, and we do not all have mothers with whom to spend the day.

Or, the relationships we do have are a source of confusion or conflict. We may be managing emotionally needy parents, and not just as they age. We may be struggling as parents ourselves, working to improve relationships with adolescent and adult children.

Even if our mothers are not the shining stars that we might have wished — we are all “only human” after all — most of us can name women in our lives whose presence has brought us lessons, laughter, and joy, and whose qualities continue to serve as examples to us.

I think of my maternal grandmother, with whom I remember spending visits sitting in her cozy den, watching the birds that came to the window where she set out seed, and the contentment I felt when the two of us were sketching together in the quiet.

I think of her sister, my great aunt, a warm, effusive, and nurturing woman, whose tiny home on the Chesapeake was filled with aromas of cooking and baking. She also possessed a strong love for nature and for making art. She and my grandmother painted exquisite small scale scenes in oils and watercolors.

1940s Style_Two Women_L_E 2I think of the daughter of a friend, now a young woman, who reminds me of the excitement with which we view the world when we are in our twenties. And it is a pleasure that she stays in touch.

Naturally, I think of my mother, now gone for more than a decade. She was a brilliant and complicated woman whose legacy to me is very much a mixed bag. Yet as I look around the room in which I write, I am face to face with her enormous positive influence; she gifted me with my passion for books and contemporary art.

In the spirit of honoring the good women in your life — mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers, aunts, sisters, daughters, daughters-in-law — and of course, wife, girlfriend, friend — I hope you will raise a glass to them this weekend. Celebrate the significance of their contributions to your life.

 

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  1. Angela Muller says

    May 7, 2016 at 10:27 am

    Such a lovely post, acknowledging all the complicated realities that define life’s relationships, and choosing to find and focus on the positive influences in our lives. Happy Mother’s Day to you!

    Reply
    • D. A. Wolf says

      May 7, 2016 at 10:47 am

      Thank you, Angela. And the same to you. 🙂

      Reply
  2. Missy Robinson says

    May 9, 2016 at 12:50 pm

    D.A.,

    I suppose as woman, I recognize that I am full of inconsistency and complications myself. I pray and hope those in my life can accept the positives, forgive the less-than ideal aspects. Such grace is a gift and recognizing it brings contentment.

    I hope your weekend was wonderful!

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