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You are here: Home / Culture / Thoughts on the French: Are They Really Too American?

Thoughts on the French: Are They Really Too American?

October 19, 2013 by D. A. Wolf 9 Comments

How could I possibly have waited to comment on the discussion of whether or not France is becoming too American?

Paris MetroCertainly, my dreams of Paris don’t include running into “Le MacDo” around every corner, not to mention hearing English phrases sprinkled throughout a conversation with anyone under the age of 40, or for that matter, splashed across storefronts or the press.

Room for Debate has a few things to say on the matter, though fortunately, Debra Ollivier, a writer who generally elicits a nod of my head, believes the growing similarities are purely superficial.

She gets to the heart of the matter by citing writer Michèle Fitoussi who notes that the French possess “a keen sense of the brevity of time and the immediacy of pleasure.”

France: Losing its Measure of Pleasure?

Ms. Ollivier clarifies with these remarks:

… the French still exalt the senses and prefer having a life over making a living – and lucky for them, their infrastructure of social benefits lets everyone do just that.

“Exalting the senses…” Oh, that’s delicious. And who doesn’t want to have a life? Are we now seeing the dramas of live to work versus work to live playing out in Paris and its environs? Ms. Ollivier goes on:

… Americans have a keen sense of the immediacy of the future and the brevity of pleasure, with a dollop of guilt and a Puritan undertow in the mix.

Americans Exporting Obesity to France

Still, the data clearly shows obesity as a growing problem in France, with the 2012 obesity rate in France at 14.5% – nearly double the rate just 15 years earlier. We might recognize the role of changing habits like “métro-boulot-dodo” – commute, work, sleep. Surely these habitudes are exacerbating health issues caused by fast food and culture creep from corners less than quality, namely, well… ours.

Overweight woman tired of exercisingIt would have been unthinkable even 20 years ago to see overweight women (especially), unless they were “of a certain age” and even then, custom and cultural values made this state of affairs unacceptable. But now, French women fear fat, too – and statistics support this concern.

Seeing Jenny Craig appear on the widening horizon certainly doesn’t help the cause of believing that the Americanization of France is purely à la surface.

Bye-Bye to the Myth of French Language Purity

Another voice on whether or not France is becoming less French may be found in a discussion of the identity crisis, and I note worries over the French language. In “French, English, and Our Identity Crisis” Philippe Bertrand refers to the « mauvaise utilisation de la langue française et l’usage abusif de l’anglais dans la vie courante. » This translates to:

… poor usage of French and the abuse of English in daily life…

Mr. Bertrand comments on the necessity of a « ministère délégué dédié en partie à la francophonie » – “a minister dedicated in part to the French language” – which is surely a sign of wanting a watchdog to keep the language pure.

Then again, that was the intent of the Académie Française, was it not? Apparently they’ve been sleeping on the job…

But isn’t language purity a myth? (The French have been defending their language since 1539 – but against regional influences as well as Spanish and Italian.*) Hasn’t American English been bombarded with changes as well? Doesn’t language evolve on the street – and more quickly as we Facebook, Google, Tweet, and text – or should I say – Facebooker, Googler, Tweeter, and texter?

The Mythology of French Culture

So where does that leave the French? The irresistible French lover? The vociferous and intellectual débat that is so enjoyed over a delectable dinner?

I’m guessing the French have their heads down, trying to slog through the days just like the rest of us who may have to compromise our images of their more intellectual, more philosophical, more glamorous, more cultural, more sensual et oui – sexier lifestyle.

Note that I said compromise, not eliminate. And while we’re at it, let’s not forget that the health care system is superior and far less expensive (though nothing is perfect), the French do pay for it (yes folks, that’s what taxes are for), and the reality is, globalization is inevitable, but…
French Pharmacie Symbol

Americans Exporting Bad Habits

It’s certainly sad if what we’re exporting is our worst possible habits, for example, poor quality food grabbed on the run, untenable work hours and underemphasis on “pleasure.” Among those pleasures, I would put valuing family, spending time together à table, and recognizing that very “brevity” that Ms. Ollivier cites.

It’s a shame the “cultural exchange” couldn’t be a two-way street, and our better national selves rather than our worst. The French will always be – in my opinion – special, as all cultures are special. They also remind us that we lose (as do they) when we cease to focus on quality and on each other – and when we tumble into that very American tendency – excess.

 


 
*La Page des Lettres

 

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Comments

  1. batticus says

    October 19, 2013 at 3:30 pm

    I have to think the the Academie is fighting a losing fight, creating words that no one uses is pointless and English is too powerful a force with the huge amount of new words created each year. North American culture is something to keep out of Europe but even there, interdependent economies and out-sourcing force wages down and benefits to be reduced resulting in a culture of economic desperation. While I was taking Italian lessons in the spring, I saw a doc called “Italy: Love it or Leave it” and I found myself waiting for the doomed tone to change to the “love it” parts of Italian culture, let’s just say it wasn’t “Under the Tuscan Sun”‘s Italy. I still think these old cultures won’t die out but they will change and hopefully retain the important parts that make them ideals to strive towards.

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  2. Heather in Arles says

    October 20, 2013 at 7:29 am

    The last time we were at the grocery store, I turned to my honey and said, “Look how many people are overweight.” Even twelve years ago, when I first moved here, you never saw overweight people–it was so surprising to me, coming from the States. But now, wow is it different. Especially with the children and yes, women. When I look in folks grocery carts, I see soda and prepared foods–clearly the time crunch at work is having a huge effect (think about all of the suicides here in companies like Peugot and France Telecom/Orange). I know of lots of people that work on the weekends to stay “somewhat caught up” and yep, they are too tired to cook. I don’t think that I see families getting together even for the Sunday meal–save for holidays–and that to me, is very American…

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  3. Marsha @ Splenderosa says

    October 20, 2013 at 2:17 pm

    I do think there are some major US corporations which espouse work/life balance. Like Accenture. Of course, this is a “consulting” company so they should have opinions on these things. I think the people of our country work waaay too many hours to the exclusion of almost everything else, afraid the other guy will get ahead. About the language, I really have no knowledge of the French ruining their language, however, it’s happening here because of our young people who take shortcuts with words, and all of our illegals who choose not to speak English properly or at all. Language, books, universities, all forms of learning need the purity of our languages and I, for one, hope this never changes. I love the different cultures of the world, and understanding them can only come via language. Very insightful, ladybug. xx’s

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  4. lagatta à montréal says

    October 20, 2013 at 2:26 pm

    La Francophonie refers to a French equivalent to the British Commonwealth, made up of countries and regions that are French-speaking in whole or in part, not to language purity. Francophone writers include Québécois, French Swiss and Belgian writers, and many writers in former French colonies in North and West Africa who write in French.

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    • D. A. Wolf says

      October 20, 2013 at 3:26 pm

      Yes! Thank you for elaborating. It is indeed any form of French. I do find it amusing when we have a depanneuse au Quebec – a convenience store – which is a tow truck in France! Thanks so much for reading and commenting.

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      • lagatta à montréal says

        October 21, 2013 at 7:20 pm

        You are welcome! Though the convenience store, or corner shop, or less politically-correctly, “chez l’Arabe” ou “chez le Chinois”, is called a “dépanneur”, here.

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        • D. A. Wolf says

          October 21, 2013 at 8:08 pm

          :). Fabulous. Language is such fun!

  5. Suz says

    October 21, 2013 at 3:35 pm

    I have to say the comparison to “American” as bad/source of all evil etc is a bit grating in media. Its the fall back position really for a slow news day.

    My father (now in his 70s) lived in France for a few years in the 1960s and he found it to be very much the same as anywhere as far as day to day life. Fat people and skinny people. And this was pre-fast food France. (Gerard Depardiu was never all that skinny for example). I do think its more of a rose coloured glasses outlook. Much like the language – nothing is static.

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  6. Barbara says

    October 22, 2013 at 1:50 pm

    The flip-flop of American’s brevity and immediacy from the quintessential French take – along with a dollop of guilt and Puritan undertow in the mix?? No wonder we’re so often in such a sad state. Yikes.

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