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You are here: Home / Health / Watching Debates, the Body Reveal, Rules of the Game

Watching Debates, the Body Reveal, Rules of the Game

September 29, 2012 by D. A. Wolf 6 Comments

Let the games begin!

According to news sources, the presidential candidates are prepping this weekend. You got it – readying for the debates that begin on Wednesday evening, October 3rd.

I’m curious. Will you watch? And if so, why?

Once upon a time, I found this sort of thing boring. But these days?

I find the entire process fascinating. I’m far more aware of how politics influences my life, my community, and the not so distant future of my children. Besides – humans and their interactions are endlessly entertaining, don’t you think?

Some believe the debates will have little impact, but you never know.

Presidential Debates – Thumbs Up or Thumbs Down?

With an amusing reference to Richard Nixon’s “flop sweat,” The Daily Beast asserts “Presidential Debates Rarely Have Much Effect on Election Outcomes.”

Writer Miranda Green explains that debates are “full of memorable moments” – and I might add, great fodder for Saturday Night Live, but calling upon a 2008 Gallop study, she explains:

… the most common outcome of the presidential debates is a slight popularity bump. But that bump doesn’t necessarily translate into votes.

I was also intrigued by a brief article on Psypost, which reveals that we register distaste for political figures physiologically. In other words, when it comes to staying open-minded to the candidate we don’t like, we fail.

Simply put, we don’t pay attention. At least, one study at the end of the 2008 presidential race offers data that reflect our interest or disinterest, as measured by heart rate and other factors.

Tuning In and Tuning Out

Are we surprised? Isn’t this consistent with drifting off into daydreaming during the meeting that drags on too long, or tuning out the neighbor who constantly complains? Don’t our feelings and impressions always register in our bodies – if not on our bodies?

According to Psypost, the study monitored

heart rates, skin conductance and activation of facial muscles.

The results?

… partisan participants reacted strongly to ads featuring their favored candidate, but barely responded to ads featuring the rival candidate. In comparison, people who didn’t favor one candidate over the other showed similar physiological response patterns and intensity to ads for both…

Increasing Attention Span

If we can train ourselves to be more focused and attentive in professional situations – and there seem to be tricks and techniques for that – could we also increase our ability to pay attention when someone is saying something we don’t care to hear?

The spouse? The kids? Our candidates?

Of course, as much as we all appreciate a great one-liner, our politicians would need to offer us more than factoids, and we would need to genuinely listen to statements and elaborations that exceed the sound bite.

Yet if we assume that it’s human nature to respond more positively to messages (and people) conforming to our existing belief system, can we nonetheless encourage open-mindedness to other opinions? Even if only by reminding ourselves to do so?

The Body Doesn’t Lie

Don’t we express every emotion in some physiological manner? Perhaps it’s more visible in certain circumstances, but isn’t it difficult to hide disdain for the boss, boredom with the in-laws, or the flutter of excitement when the cute new colleague strides into the office?

I’ve known my share of Masters of the Mask – haven’t you? They’re able to keep their poker faces intact, and it’s an admirable skill.

I’m also wary of it. What is useful professionally can be problematic personally. How do you ever know where you stand?

Rules of the Game

To be successful in certain fields, there’s no question you need to hide your feelings or remain detached. Politicians come to mind, obviously. So do lawyers, judges, executives, and counselors of various sorts.

Still, the fact that we unconsciously pay less attention to those who espouse an opinion with which we disagree, or simply someone we dislike, is a bit of information I never considered.

Returning to the original subject – our upcoming debates for the 2012 presidential election – I’ll be watching. And I’m going to do my very best to pay close attention to what both candidates have to say, and the way they say it.

What about you?



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  1. Old Married Lady says

    September 29, 2012 at 12:09 pm

    Yes, I’ll be watching. One candidate is easy for me to listen to because I like him… and the other just pisses me off–but you are right, I need to pay attention to what both have to say and evaluate whether it makes sense, and not be swayed by the way they express themselves.

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  2. Wolf Pascoe says

    September 29, 2012 at 5:48 pm

    I’m going to re-read Lincoln’s speeches instead.

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  3. Heather in Arles says

    September 30, 2012 at 11:58 am

    Well, because of the time difference I will have to wait to see the replay but I am hoping that Romney will say something so completely offensive and ridiculous along the lines of “Russia is our worst enemy” so that more people will stop being so complacent.

    Speaking of, I quite liked Samuel Jackson’s discours in the video “Wake the f*ck up!”…

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    • BigLittleWolf says

      September 30, 2012 at 12:25 pm

      Now now, Heather. Some of us can see Russia from our kitchen window… 😉

      Reply
  4. Naptimewriting says

    September 30, 2012 at 5:53 pm

    I used to teach critical thinking. I believe our nation’s overall resistance to open mindedness, willingness to listen to only one side (the one that agrees with our biases), and tendency to vote based on party not person is disgusting. I find the cable news, sound byte, talk radio era we’re going through disgusting. I find the lack of analysis and disclosure and fact checking disgusting.

    And that’s why I believe everyone should watch. The debate format offers an important juxtaposition unavailable elsewhere.

    (Prime time is a very bad time in our household. I’ll try to grab an audio replay online later, but as engaged as I am in political discourse, as important as I find every single election, I just can’t get our family’s lives to work well if the tv is on during dinner/bath/bedtime.)

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    • BigLittleWolf says

      September 30, 2012 at 6:12 pm

      Hear hear, Naptime! (And I get it, about the dinner/bath/bedtime circus.)

      Reply

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