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Mad Men: Sand, Sex, and Chinks in the Chinese Wall

October 4, 2010 by D. A. Wolf 7 Comments

A touch of sand

It’s just an innocent ride home from Jones Beach, right? A little bit of sand clinging to Peggy’s skin. A crowded car. Peggy is jammed onto Abe’s lap as he strokes her arm, brushing off the sand. Is that sunburn on her face, or the undeniable color of chemistry?

Right. They tumble into bed. Act goofy in the morning. Go at it again.

Peggy walks into the office late, with a bounce in her step.

Plenty of sex

Don and Faye remain an item. Thus far, Don’s disclosure as a Dick has yet to send her screaming into the night. Um. Let me rephrase. Out of his life, that is.

But naturally, Don is Don and Don is a dick. He can’t keep it zipped when secretary Megan initiates his latest fidelity fail. We knew it was coming, but did it have to happen so predictably?

Then again, Megan has a few tricks – and ambitions – up her pretty little sleeve.

As for propriety? Or lessons learned? Oh right. Don’t screw your secretary. Especially when you’re already sleeping with the Consumer Behavior Psychologist. And you all work in the same office.

“Chinese Wall”

As all hell breaks loose at Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce with the defection of Lucky Strike, what next?

If the Chinese Wall is defined as appropriate ethical barriers maintained to protect client confidentiality, we can watch the tenets of that principle slighted, stretched, and broadly breached. Scene after scene illustrate confidences withheld where they ought to be shared, and secrets spilled where they don’t belong.

And could we add a bit of questionable ambulance chasing – or rather, hearse chasing – at a memorial service for an ad man where they hope to pick up a few new clients?

Roger storms the (wrong) walls

Utterly unable to disclose the Lucky Strike situation to his partners, Roger feigns ignorance, fakes phone calls, and likewise a trip to Winston-Salem. But he tells Joan everything. She is not impressed.

Our intrepid ad men scramble to save existing accounts (jumping ship), not to mention throwing ethical behavior out the window to snatch up some new ones. And while Roger turns to Joan for comfort, she gently (but firmly) says no, summing things up:

I’m not a solution to your problems. I’m another problem.”

Oh baby. Another sign there’s still a baby?

Don, Faye, Megan

Faye? Meet Don. He wants you to can your standards of client confidentiality and tell him who’s unhappy at other agencies. There’s business to be gotten!

Fight? Right. And then Faye caves, but only after Don has fallen into bed… uh, couch… with Meghan.

And just how easy is it to get Dapper Don to stray? Pretty damn easy as Megan manipulates.

Don: “I don’t think this is a good idea… I can’t make any mistakes right now.”

Megan: “Let’s be clear I’m not going to run out of here crying tomorrow. I just want you right now.”

Faye? Faye who? Any doubts the the rugged rogue we’ve come to know isn’t still alive and well? And Faye, believing in their relationship, breaks her standards of professional conduct and secures Don a meeting with a competitor’s client.

Peggy, Abe, Stan

Peggy’s oozing the sweet smell of sex, and Stan responds like a dog in heat. He crosses the barrier of propriety (again), and puts the moves on. She rebukes him, but ass that he is, he lets her present with lipstick on her teeth. Way go to sophomoric Stan!

Not to worry, her glow carries her through as she nails the Playtex gloves account. Score one for Peggy. Make that score another one. Wasn’t that Abe leaving the office with a satisfied grin?

Pete, Ted, Trudy

Pete isn’t immune to the goings on, though surprisingly, he isn’t giving in. Yet. He confides in his father-in-law about the disastrous happenings at SCDP, and Daddio pulls in tacky Ted of competitive Clio fame. Ted offers Pete a position, as the father-in-law says “don’t go down with the ship.”

Trudy ultimately has a baby girl, while Pete is in a pow-wow at the office. Another tale of an ad man away from home, away from family, away from a daughter. Like Don? Like the eulogized David Montgomery? Like all of these Mad Men?

Lovely symmetry, poignant close

Did we experience enough echoes of moral relativism, of lies and cowardice, of “just business as usual” among these characters?

Roger wearily heads home to Jane. She greets him sweetly and suspects nothing. She’s clueless, and he’s lost. She takes his hand, wraps his arm around her shoulder, places her own across his chest, and lowers her head. He rests his chin in her hair, and stares straight ahead. He looks older. Defeated.

Guilty? Doubt it.

In a parallel scene, Faye is waiting for Don as he arrives late after their fight and his stumble with Megan. They sit on the couch as she wraps his arm around her, settles into his body, lowers her head onto his chest and he rests his in her hair. She’s none the wiser. He stares straight ahead.

Guilty? We’d like to think so. But more probable – worried.



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  1. Rudri says

    October 4, 2010 at 12:14 pm

    BLW, I keep saying how I need to watch this show and you know what? I am going to rent the first season this week and give it a go.

    Reply
    • BigLittleWolf says

      October 4, 2010 at 12:18 pm

      Excellent, Rudri! 🙂 (You’ll be hooked in no time. In a good way, of course.)

      Reply
  2. Cathy says

    October 4, 2010 at 11:01 pm

    I find myself wanting to make excuses for Don. I thought I had grown past the point of making excuses for men!

    I know he is a bad boy, I just don’t want him to be your typical bad boy. I so want to be able to expect more from him. With Don though, what you see is what you get and poor Faye isn’t going to change that.

    Reply
    • BigLittleWolf says

      October 5, 2010 at 8:43 am

      Given that Don is our “hero,” and we’ve seen him make progress with his moral struggles, we’d like to get behind him and yes, make excuses for him when he slips. Then again, why is he any more entitled to excuses than anyone else? But I know what you mean. 😉

      That Faye-Don pairing. Something is off in that chemistry. I could do with seeing Betty lapse (with Don)… That would be interesting. (Remember their sparks in Roma?)

      Reply
  3. Cathy says

    October 5, 2010 at 6:08 pm

    Oh yes, a Betty and Don tryst would be interesting. I see it in the works. She is too angry for there not to still be an emotional connection.

    One thing I’ve wondered about is the teacher that he had an affair with last season. I’ve been surprised that we haven’t seen her this season. I thought the first place he would go after his divorce was her based on the connection they seemed to have had.

    Once again, I was wrong

    Reply
    • BigLittleWolf says

      October 5, 2010 at 6:15 pm

      Oh, what a good thought, Cathy. Miss Farrell. Yes.

      Of course, one of the things that I like so much about this series is that it doesn’t neatly tie things up in bows the way fiction would. More than likely, Miss Farrell has moved on, Don might not want to (in any way) feel as though he’s going backwards rather than forward, and we do get the impression that he’s been fighting quite the battle with himself since the divorce. Something, ironically, that we have seen none of, with Betty.

      I will say I find that (thus far) to be a missed opportunity. Mining Betty a bit more. Then again, knowing the propensity these writers have for winding our character allegiances around their little finger, we may be led to a more sympathetic view of Betty in the future.

      I did like that chemistry between Don and Miss Farrell. I feel none between Don and Faye, no matter how “fitting” they might seem on paper.

      Reply
  4. furtive says

    October 9, 2010 at 12:23 pm

    Madness in casting Joanie, Betty, Faye (an Italian brunette) , and Meagan (maybe Peggy):

    http://www.deadline.com/2010/10/hollywood-has-to-stop-behaving-like-this/

    Writers’ oxymoron: Faye does not apply her professional strategy to her personal life. Or perhaps, she is living a lie and is a fraud, just like Don, the dick.

    Faye would be more believable as a brunette (Cara Buon’s natural hair).

    Meagan is right out of “Sybil” casting. Weiner has reinvented her with no notice or allusion.

    Reply

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