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Why You Should Be Watching Mad Men (Especially if You’re a Woman)

September 6, 2010 by D. A. Wolf 8 Comments

The heart of the matter

All those sayings… about a woman’s place, about a woman’s power, about the capacities – and limitations – that are inherently female. Must I really enumerate them? Can’t you rattle them off in your head? They’ve been planted there since you were a child, you know – whether you’re 30 or 60.

Go on. Try it. Let’s let loose with a few of them, shall we?

Where shall we start?

  • A woman’s place is in the home
  • Frailty, thy name is woman
  • The only secret a woman can keep is her age
  • Women are emotional, men are rational

Care for one more that epitomizes the plight and challenges of Peggy Olson?

Then I will venture this, from British novelist, Joseph Conrad:

Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.

Mad Men, Peggy, and The Suitcase

Last night’s episode of Mad Men, “The Suitcase,” shows off 26-year old Peggy in all her glory – juggling that very difficult task of dealing with men: Peggy as earth mother to Duck and Don in their sloppy alcoholism, Peggy as a woman with clear ambitions, Peggy disdained for her unconventional choices, Peggy unafraid to voice her anger and own the consequences.

Other roles to savor as so many of the male characters revolve around Miss Peggy Olson?

Peggy the desirable lover. Peggy the rebellious daughter. Peggy the mother, as she admits that she thinks of her child given up for adoption. Peggy, the vessel for so many emotions of men who depend on her capacities – much like the Samsonite suitcase itself – sleek, strong, with a hard exterior, yet providing safe transport for whatever you place in its care.

And might we add that Peggy cracks? She is not impenetrable. She sobs in the bathroom, in privacy. In contrast, both Don and Duck bawl in front of her. And who is the frailer sex, again? The more needy?

Mad Men recap

Elisabeth Moss as Peggy shines at the core of a swirl of events that take place on this day and night of her 26th birthday. Her well-meaning but insipid boyfriend, Mark, plans a surprise party – and she chooses to remain at the office with a strangely erratic Don, as they work on the Samsonite account.

It is the day that Duck, drunk and fired from his job at Grey, tries to ingratiate himself with Peggy – first suggesting a job offer, then pouring out his self-serving need for her. It is the day that Don knows Anna is dying, and unable to face it, becomes meaner and more destructive than usual, drinking until he’s ill.

It is the day that Peggy is the whipping boy for Don and Duck lashing out, though as the evening wears on, she manages both men, and reveals more of herself to Don as he confides pieces of his past, and then Anna’s death. Don’s disclosures are unforced; he refers to Anna as “the one person who knew me,” perhaps beginning to sense that Peggy may be equally capable of knowing him more fully.

Why you should be watching Mad Men

There’s no wonder that this show garnered a few more Emmys recently. You should be watching Mad Men for its tight and subtle performances, for the remarkable writing, for the sets that take us back 45 years, for the reminders of battles still to be waged against sexism, racism, and anti-semitism.

You should be watching for the texture in these portrayals of women.

If Joan is one of the more elegant examples of the 1960s woman in all her complexity and constraints, Peggy epitomizes the woman not only butting up against the stereotypes, but chipping away at them successfully. Consistently. Without sacrificing her femininity.

If we doubt Peggy’s growing potency prior to this episode, we certainly don’t after. In “The Suitcase,” she is the heart, the moral compass without judging, the woman who will no longer accept anything but her place as Don’s equal for respect, if not yet accomplishments. She is the sturdy arms that comfort, the wise head that knows restraint, the increasingly confident woman willing to take on whatever comes – across the office desk, the table in a dismal diner, or on the next seat at the bar.

Kudos again to the creators of  Mad Men – for the depth and power of these incredible Mad Women.





Click images to access originals at AMCTV.  Images Michael Yarish / courtesy AMCTV.com


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Filed Under: Entertainment, Mad Men, Women's Issues Tagged With: 1960s, 1960s prejudice, AMC TV Mad Men, mad men recaps, Mad Men reviews, Mad Men Season 4, women and power, women's roles

Comments

  1. suzannah {so much shouting, so much laughter} says

    September 6, 2010 at 4:35 pm

    it was SUCH a good episode last night. really good, thoughtful tv. a true stand-out in a sea of mindless junk. nice recap.

    Reply
  2. Jane says

    September 6, 2010 at 9:49 pm

    Ok. That’s it. I’m am jumping season one of Mad Men up to the number one spot on my Nexflix queue.

    Reply
    • BigLittleWolf says

      September 6, 2010 at 10:09 pm

      Hooray! (And I’m not on their PR staff either… 😉 )

      Reply
  3. Kat Wilder says

    September 7, 2010 at 8:23 am

    I watched a few episodes back when it began. Yes, it was well-written, well acted, fantastic TV. But, I get antsy watching TV. It’s a time suck when I have only X amount of time to indulge in “me” time. Maybe I’ll just be sure to read your blog Monday mornings for the recaps …. 😉

    But, are you saying we should all aspire to be a Peggy?

    Reply
    • BigLittleWolf says

      September 7, 2010 at 8:50 am

      Interesting question, Kat. No, I don’t think we should aspire to be Peggy. I think we should aspire to the life that we wish to lead – and those aspirations will evolve with time and experience. But the character of Peggy, set 45 years ago, exemplifies the breadth of potential that many women have, and the struggle between what society expects of them, what they (are raised to) expect of themselves, and other pulls which they wish to pursue – career, for example. Or sexual exploration. Peggy is far from an idealized character (she’s very young, and she’s made mistakes). We see her maturing, juggling, and demonstrating that she’s got balls at a time when if women did, showing them was problematic.

      What is fascinating about this show is how many issues all the female characters face – Joan (in her office experiences, with her voluptuous beauty, in her “settled for” marriage), Betty (in her screwed up parenting and her elitism mixed with concern for “what others think”), Trudi, happily pregnant and the traditional wife and mother (with little inkling of what a snake her husband can be), and so on. Not so different from today’s world, best I can tell.

      Reply
  4. Jenn says

    September 7, 2010 at 1:14 pm

    I haven’t watched the show, but it does sound interesting. I hope that some strides have been made for women in our society (and in our own thinking as women) that there is more of an individual choice in who/what we aspire to be.

    I went to a wedding over the weekend and the officient’s words at presenting the bride and groom as a couple: “I now pronounce you wife and husband!” Quirky yet, a nod to present thinking!

    My friend, on volunteering for her son’s football team, was NOT asked if she was volunteering to be the team mom, but what job she wanted. There was no hesitation when she responded that she wanted to coach the offensive line. She was welcomed right in with the rest of the coaching staff.

    Reply
    • BigLittleWolf says

      September 7, 2010 at 1:18 pm

      Great feedback, Jenn. And all very encouraging.

      Reply
  5. rebecca @ altared spaces says

    October 13, 2010 at 10:17 am

    I have just started watching Mad Men. Oh My! I am hooked and then some! and now I’ll have all these great posts of yours to read as well. Treat ooh la la.

    Reply

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