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Parenting Teens: Tips from a Professional Post Party Parent

August 22, 2010 by D. A. Wolf 11 Comments

Are you parenting partying teens? Care to hear my ten tips for surviving party chaos? For surviving normal chaos? The planned, the unplanned, the assumed stuff of parenting pandemonium?

Yes, it’s Sunday morning. (Insert *sigh* of relief.) Yes, for the moment it’s quiet. (Sigh number two.) No teenagers as yet stirring in the kitchen, after another day of comings-and-goings, asking for the car keys, kids in, kids out, an evening of in and out, impromptu parties here and there and then here again, also known as Teen Grand Central, Teen Party Central, Single Mother Excedrin Headache  Number 999. . . So much for my plan to “do nothing – effectively.”

Okay, it wasn’t that bad. Still, this morning, I thought I would share my expertise with those who have tweens and teens, so you may benefit from my professional status when it comes to dealing with planned and unplanned teen party activity.

And just to further impress upon you the depth of my experience, shall I term it Power Parenting, or better yet, Single Parent Power?

Ten Tips for Tolerating (Parenting) Teens (Without Excessive Alcohol):

Ready? Sitting down? Slouching? Here goes –

  1. Ear plugs (for the parents)
  2. Tracking devices (for putting around adolescent ankles)
  3. Synchronized watches / cell phones, for managing curfew
  4. Can the curfew; let them all sleep at your house, or somewhere viewable on Google Earth
  5. Martinis (I said without excessive alcohol)
  6. Pinot Noir, Cabernet Sauvignon, Bordeaux (if Martinis aren’t your thing)
  7. A good hairdresser (for the gray)
  8. A good hairdresser (for the gray – yes – it bears repeating)
  9. A wholesome addiction, like chocolate
  10. A sense of humor (perhaps the most important?)
  11. (Bonus item!) Perspective

Single mother of sons:

Seriously? I think for a single mom, or any mom, parenting sons through the teenage years is easier than parenting daughters. Perhaps it’s just my impression, but having two sons (and having observed mother-daughter interaction among friends), I’m counting my blessings, knocking on wood, and just happy to know that everyone is sleeping quietly in the house (and I can see the car keys).

Single or solo parenting through “routine chaos” isn’t for the faint of heart, but I’m fortunate. I give my kids specific guidelines, they don’t take advantage, I don’t fuss over 10 or 15 minutes late, I request check-ins by phone or text, and they know the rules about being safe – in all ways.

Is that a guarantee?

There are no guarantees. They’re kids! There’s only a balance of remembering what we were like as teenagers (may I repeat – a good hair stylist), reasonable limits, and a large dose of knowing your kid – how much responsibility he or she can exercise, and how close an eye you need to keep on everyone and everything. Come to think of it – keep that close eye no matter what. It can’t hurt.


 

© D A Wolf

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  1. Carol says

    August 22, 2010 at 8:38 pm

    Keep the eyes open – always. Have lots of patience – always. Trust – but don’t overdo that. Pray – constantly. Love – abundantly.

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    • BigLittleWolf says

      August 22, 2010 at 8:53 pm

      Beautifully said, Carol.

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  2. Privilege of Parenting says

    August 23, 2010 at 12:02 am

    …and try not to think about what we were up to when we were their age.

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  3. LisaF says

    August 23, 2010 at 12:45 am

    Apprentice (former College Girl) had a blow out summer party one year. There must have been 50 people or more at our house. Parent presence was obvious and most of them didn’t have any problem with that. I mingled through the humanity making sure there were DDs. If not, I confiscated the car keys on the spot. Had quite a full family room by the next morning. I think I was finding beer pong balls in my flower beds for 2 years! Yes, Carol, patience, trust (to a point), ceaseless praying and an abundance love. Plus chocolate, merlot AND a good masseuse! 😉

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    • BigLittleWolf says

      August 23, 2010 at 7:26 am

      @PoP – I was terribly boring at their age (all I did was study) – so I have to think about all the things I thought about doing at their age. . .
      @Lisa – As long as it isn’t an abundance of chocolate. Been there, done that. 🙂 (Beer bong balls in the flowers. Too funny!)

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  4. dadshouse says

    August 23, 2010 at 2:13 pm

    I didn’t fight it with my daughter. I figured I raised her well, and she’s a responsible teen. I guess it’s easier since she’s actually 18, legally an adult, able to stir up as much trouble as she wants. But before heading to college, she still stayed here, so I had some responsibility.

    I figure I didn’t change the locks when she was out, so I did my part.

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  5. Belinda Munoz + The Halfway Point says

    August 23, 2010 at 2:41 pm

    I was just bemoaning how quickly the baby years flew by when I recently heard More Today than Yesterday, a song I sang all the time when my son was born. So yes, I half look forward and half dread these days these years that I know will come soon enough.

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  6. Linda says

    August 23, 2010 at 2:56 pm

    Thank you for this. As the mother of a 15 year old daughter and 12 year old son, I have a feeling I am in for the ride of my life.

    I don’t comment often, but read daily. I admire how you have raised your sons. Your posts give me the energy to battle through this parenting blur, because I know that this time will past quickly.

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  7. Rudri says

    August 23, 2010 at 5:14 pm

    I think you can use this list in managing a four year old too (especially the Martini part).

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    • BigLittleWolf says

      August 23, 2010 at 7:12 pm

      The terrible twos prepare us for the terrible (uh, terrific) teens. . . You are quite right, Rudri!

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  8. Amber says

    August 24, 2010 at 12:05 am

    Yes, no teens here but many, many late nights. Activities I like to jokingly refer to as parties, minus the friends. You better believe that chocolate is my friend. (And good hair products. I have learned to rely on a few good gels and hairsprays over the years.)

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