The real surprise in the Mad Men Season 5 premiere? Not only are Don and Megan married – they’re happy.
We rejoin our favorite characters after 17 months of the show’s hiatus, and knowing Don Draper, we expect trouble in paradise.
But we’re wrong.
Not only has our hero married his former secretary Megan, played by Jessica Paré, but this unlikely pair seems genuinely affectionate – and in love.
Signs of emotional intimacy are apparent – in the way they talk together, play together, and deal with Don’s kids. None of this ease was possible between Don and cool, blond first wife Betty. The result of too many secrets? Too much Bryn Mawr? Or who they both were at the time of their marriage?
It’s clear from a bedroom scene that Megan is privy to Don’s dual identity and his past life as Dick Whitman. In contrast to the other couples present (and absent), theirs is the relationship that seems to be working.
Marital Contentment? Not So Much
Pete and Trudy? We see disillusionment on Pete’s part, particularly with the arrival of their first child.
Joan and Greg? We know the Doc isn’t dead – he was shipped off to Vietnam at the end of last season – but he is at Fort Dix for another year leaving Joan alone and in limbo with her new baby. And it’s a boy, fathered by former lover Roger Sterling.
Lane and his wife? Clearly, problems bubble beneath the surface. The stand-up Brit is proper in public, but his flirting with an unknown woman on the telephone reflects a painful loneliness.
Roger and Jane? “She doesn’t like me,” says Roger of his much younger second wife, as though it’s just to be expected. And checking out their interactions – true that.
Betty and Henry are missing in action for the first episode. May we presume they are muddling along in their upscale unhappiness?
Jessica Paré as Don’s Wife Megan
Jessica Paré certainly brings a little je ne sais quoi to the Draper domestic life. We see her humility in the office (she works for Peggy now), and her warmth and affability in general – with Don et al.
In one scene, Megan exits Don’s office, unwilling to indulge him in recreation while on the clock. Don says: “Open your blouse.” She unbuttons, flashes him her cleavage, and with a sparkle in her eye she says “You’re a dirty old man. Anything else?”
“No Ma’am,” he replies.
Ah. Wedded bliss.
But she’s no pushover. There’s a sexual spark between Megan and Don that’s alternately romantic, vulnerable, familiar, or characterized by a passionate power-based push-pull.
Does anyone else remember Don’s occasional penchant for being slapped in bed?
We’re treated to a hint of pyrotechnics in a post-party encounter. Megan is stripped down to her black undies, and provocatively posed on all fours as she picks up mess from the carpet. Petulant, she’s punishing Don for hurting her feelings. She denies him any touch and forcefully insists that he’s only allowed to watch.
A sizzling scene ensues, followed by pillow talk – on the dirty floor.
“The Girls” and Changing Times
There’s something else in the Draper marriage which is not traditional for the day. Megan is now working at Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce while married to Don. They both like it that way; they want to spend as much of their day together as possible. The distance between His and Hers that is so evident among the other couples doesn’t exist for them.
At least, not yet.
But Megan is an outsider in her way. Not cynical (as she points out), and certainly not one of the girls.
And speaking of the girls, I should have counted how many times the characters referred to “the girl” – the No-Need-To-Know-Her-Name secretary, the equally dismissed maid or housekeeper, the eventual babysitter. Don uses the term when the apartment needs cleaning (“call the girl”), the target of Lane’s flirtation refers to herself as her man’s “girl” (causing confusion; Lane assumes she’s household help), and Joan mentions that when she returns to work she’ll get “a girl” to care for the baby.
Other examples of harassing the women – or simply dismissing them? Oh, there are the usual jokes (some at Megan’s expense), but everything isn’t taken, well… lying down. The secretaries mouth off to the senior partners (shades of Blankenship?), and when so-called execs from another ad agency (Y & R) water bomb a group of civil rights protesters on the street below (described as “cops, priests, and Negroes”), women from the protest stride into Y & R and demand accountability.
The times, they are a-changing?
Suits, Status, Symbols, and White Carpet
Mad Men is well known for costuming and sets to place us in moods as well as history.
Roger sticks to traditional attire in the office as does Don, while the Creatives are more casual. But who doesn’t love seeing the plaid sports coats during off hours?
Back in the hallowed halls of Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce, Don’s office remains as it was at the end of last season – plenty of light, classic furniture, punctuated by two contemporary red chairs. (Great metaphor for where Don finds himself at this time?)
Roger’s pop black and white office scheme is breezy, but far more modern than the man himself. Contrast these spaces with Pete Campbell’s – the somber blue wall in a cramped room – just one of the reasons that surly Pete engages in turf wars with Roger. He sees the senior partner as old school, good for schmoozing and boozing but little else, while Pete brings in business and wants his due.
As for the surprise party that Don tolerates as politely as possible, not only is he unsettled because he actually turned 40 as Dick Whitman months earlier, but he treasures his privacy with Megan. He wants his home life to remain separate from SCDP – and just for family.
Matt Weiner discusses the symbolism in his sets, pointing out that the white carpeting which is filthy after the party is significant. To Don, allowing the office into their home quite literally dirties the environment.
Betty and Henry – No Show
Don’s three children are seen briefly in the season premiere. We note that baby Gene is no longer a toddler, and Sally is showing indications of adolescence and as she moves through the hallway of Don and Megan’s apartment.
She’s keenly observant, though says little. And her resemblance at moments to mother Betty is uncanny.
We get no glimpse of the Wife Number One We Love to Hate, but Betty and Henry are living in something akin to a Gothic mansion. Don drops the kids off at the curb, and tells them to give his regards to “Morticia and Lurch.” Ah… we do love our sixties pop culture references, and the Francis Residence does resemble the home of the Addams Family.
Anyone else note the reference was to Lurch rather than Gomez? Apt, for the staid and somewhat gloomy Henry Francis?
Megan’s Song Offered to Hubby Don at his 40th
So what did Megan sing to Don, in a sort of Ann-Margret sultry dance? And why?
Several media sources are already contemplating that one. And the tune, Zou Bisou Bisou, apparently comes from the “yéyé” movement, popularized in the early sixties in France and Quebec. It’s a sweet little song that nonetheless purrs with kittenish sexuality of the sort Ann-Margret exemplified in the mid sixties. Megan seems very comfortable with herself as a woman, and in her relationship with new hubby Don. So why not “gift” him with a little song-and-dance of sensual affection in front of those she presumes are his friends?
Slate dishes up this explanation of why Megan performs for Don:
… performing the song for Don in front of so many people… resonates with the broader shift in sexual mores that took place in the mid-1960s.
That shift is clear, as is Don’s discomfort with it being so public. This is more than his tendency toward control and secrecy; this is a generational difference.
And where does Megan end her number, relaxed and happy to entertain her husband?
Sitting in his lap, and planting a little kiss – you got it – in French, that’s un bisou.
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déjà pseu says
Apparently the reason we didn’t see Betty is because the producers worked around January Jones’ real-life pregnancy/birth. She will be in later episodes.
BigLittleWolf says
It will be good to see what Betty’s up to in the latter half of the 1960s. No more fainting couch for her, I think. (The one I truly worry about is Sally… )
déjà pseu says
Oh, and the Zou Bisou Bisou song really had a very Brigitte Bardot feel to it pour moi. Yes, it’s obvious in that episode, not only Megan’s song but some of the more open talk about sex that the Sexual Revolution is underway. This will be a very interesting season…
BigLittleWolf says
I found it adorable – didn’t you, Pseu? Yes, it did have a Brigitte Bardot feel (though her dancing conjured Ann-Margret for me). And it seems that the Bisou Bisou phenomenon is already hitting big! There’s a single out now!
paul says
Ah, the bliss of not having a TV.
Thinking of relationships (the real ones) — am thinking how people fill one another’s weak areas. Fran is tech — front of the wave — hates paper (save a tree). We’ve been getting set to do our taxes before the coming weekend in a cabin in the woods. More and more frustration for Fran as she searches on her computer (loaned to her son, who has done who knows what with it — I’d sooner loan my toothbrush than my primary computer) and finally says “I can’t find it.” “What?” “Our tax records, Turbotax.” “How much?” “All of it.” “From when?” “From 2005 when we were married and started a joint return.” “Everything?” “It was all in one file.” No back ups?”
Pause. Pause.
“OK, I have paper copies somewhere of everything (Mr. Obsessive here).”
It will take us considerably more time, but nothing that can’t be accomplished. She does such amazing things, and also makes such amazing goofs at times. Life goes on — there are times when I have no idea what to do, and she comes through with a brilliant idea. Such is real life (and this will NOT get posted on Facebook.)
BigLittleWolf says
I love the way you talk about your relationship, Paul. (And I was toiling away on paperwork as well this morning – thus the delay in my posting by a few hours. Real life must take precedence, no?)
Intriguing that sometimes differences between people can cause an incredible wedge. In other instances, truly complimentary habits or preferences can coexist and even be helpful, as in your case with Fran.
And pulling this back to Mad Men, it’s precisely because the characters in this story are complex and compelling, the fact that we are able to see ourselves (even in the Millennium) in them, that so many people gravitate toward this show. The relationships are messy and unpredictable, just as they are in real life – with partners, parents, kids, co-workers.
Good luck in that cabin! (And here’s to paper backups when all else fails.) 🙂
Madgew says
I enjoyed the Mad Men episode but it will take weeks to sink as in Mad Men it takes time to see where they are going. I am not so sure Don had a great relationship with Megan. That has more to come I am sure. I love Pete and Roger the best. And poor Lane is reminds me of a sad old man who eventually I think will act out in a way we least expect. Joan, who is next for her and what happens when her husband comes back and he knows he is not the father of the child unless she tries to pass it off as he was gone 7 weeks before. Or that could be a cliffhanger as well as she tries to pull off the premature birth. And poor Peggy still not getting her due. Also, I was embarrassed for Don as Megan danced. I am sure they will say she had too much to drink in the office but at the same time they would love to f… her. She has no respect and this won’t gain her any.
BigLittleWolf says
I hear you, Madge. It does take time to see where they’re headed. And yes. It’s understandable that Don was embarrassed… yes. Then again, she’s of a different generation…
batticus says
The faces of the men (especially Peggy’s date) when Megan sang that song were hilarious, a great scene last night. I could see Mad Men bringing back some overlooked music with episodes like that; the show still has a lot of potential to shape modern tastes (though the plaid jacket shouldn’t make a comeback please).
BigLittleWolf says
Like you, I’d love to see some of this “classic” music come back, batticus. The other night, I found myself wandering youtube video clips from 1965 and 1966. It’s remarkable to look back, and to appreciate all over again – as an adult.
Kristen @ Motherese says
Even though I am still not a Mad Men convert (I’ve tried to get into it a few times, but haven’t done the full dive yet), I always love reading your thoughtful, nuanced reviews. And they save me time to boot: instead of an hour of TV (or perhaps this was a 2 hour season premiere?), I can read your summary and ponder the issues of sexual politics, civil rights, and gender roles in under ten minutes! 😉