The fact that I didn't have a boyfriend for much of my twenties wasn't a concern at the time. Now I won't say that I didn't want it otherwise; it can be lonely venturing out into the world solo, especially as your friends are pairing up around you. I might have wanted a man in my life, but I wasn't feeling undefined without one. I knew how much I wanted to live life fully, to learn and travel, to write and contribute. Moreover, I knew I didn't "need" a man, though I wanted to love and be loved. Like many women of my generation, I was raised wirh a sometimes conflicting and contradictory set of gender-based values -- some traditional, some seemingly rebellious -- in transitional times. Would I have preferred a committed, loving relationship when I was 27 or 30 … [Read More...]
When you’re just not ready, at least not yet.
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Where does this leave the “older” woman?
Marriage problems after kids? Yup.
Connection? Not simple.
Don’t worry… Be happy! Or else…