Daily Dish

Turkey with all the trimmings

Keep Calm and Eat Turkey

I love stoic sayings, don't you? Keep calm and carry on. Keep calm and don't "carry on." Keep calm and... well... Go shoe shopping. Now come on. You knew that was coming. What else is coming? If I said "gobble gobble" - might that be a clue? Of course, on this very special day in seasonally appropriate and fulsome fashion - except perhaps from the poor bird's point of view - we have an alternative to the usual, and I say as much with apologies to the fowl-friendly and … [Read More...]

Cultural Musings

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Vanity vs. Narcissism

Selfie Culture. Is it vanity or narcissism – or something else?

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Growing in Different Directions… Together

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How NOT to Stress at the Holidays

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Gone Viral

Ever feel like hanging a sign on your door to buy yourself a little time off, a bit of quiet time, or maybe a good time? How about a Gone Viral sign? Now that would be fun, wouldn't it? Then again, if you go viral - or rather, something you write or post goes viral - you're probably caught up in tracking its popularity and telling all your friends, which may be a good time, but isn't exactly a day at the beach. … [Read More...]

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Taking Notice, Taking Credit

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Oldies

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What Men Want

After recently musing on what women want, how could I resist seeking Google's assist on what men want? More precisely, I was curious to know about what men want in a relationship. Clarifying further, I anticipated that the results would be "what men want" as written by women - for women. To my surprise, searching for "what men want" led me to this: what men want... in a wife. … [Read More...]

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What Women Want

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The online world is full of serendipitous encounters, and I recently bumped into a chef entrepreneur - with plenty to say on healthy eating - and running a personal services business. Brigitte Thériault is a personal chef, master menu planner, and a personal chef business coach. With 10 years of experience doing what she loves, not only does she focus on food that's good - and good for us - but she … [Read More...]

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How does it feel to reach up and stretch in the morning, or to bend and gently try to touch your toes? Sometimes, stretching hurts - yet it hurts oh-so-good if we understand its purpose. And of course, if we aren't stupid about it - overdoing without regard to consequences. When it comes to stretching physically, we need to exercise due care. But that shouldn't deter us from … [Read More...]

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Women Executives Offer Their Experience

I really couldn't pass this up. The New York Times features four female CEOs addressing what it means to find their voice. Now I must admit that I've become an avid fan of the "corner office" in The Times Business Section. One of the reasons is because of the opportunity to hear women talk about how they worked their way up to running the show, not to mention something of their personal stories that … [Read More...]

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Three-Way

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Good Intentions, Good Connections

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Everyone Needs a Cheerleader

Sometimes it takes us years to understand basic lessons like this one: Everyone needs a cheerleader, an ardent fan, a steadfast supporter. Your cheerleader may be your parent, though hopefully as you become an adult, Mom or Dad isn't the only cheerleader on the sidelines. Your cheerleader ought to be the person you make your life with - just as you are his or her biggest fan. And that means … [Read More...]

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“Too Sensitive”

I have been accused of being overly sensitive to criticism, overly sentimental, and much too concerned with other people's feelings. In other words, I am "too" sensitive, and I suffer from empathy on steroids. I plead guilty to the first (in my personal life), guilty to the second (faced with a tear-jerker on screen or in print), and guilty to the third - with no qualifications whatsoever. I am empathetic … [Read More...]

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Best Day Ever? How to Decide?

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How to Keep a Straight Face

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Growing Old… Alone

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Bad Relationship Choices

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