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Saving Scenes of Childhood: Storytelling on Film

Storytelling is one of the most compelling ways to communicate, whether to instruct our children in societal lessons or to make a point for commercial purposes. Storytelling at its best will engage the audience in a persuasive and indelible manner, as the narrative, characters, and setting settle into a place of accessible memory. Occasionally, a film engages not only by virtue of its combination of distinctive characters, its action or evolution, and its cinematic appeal to the senses, but by … [Read More...]


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How to Make Up After a Fight… Effectively

After a fight, reconnecting isn’t always so easy.

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Cast in Stone… Or, How to Adjust to Living Together

I used to think I was Carrie. Now I think I’m Miranda or maybe, Big.

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Cultural Musings

Rorschach Test

Do We See What We Expect to See?

Seeing what we expect and what we fear.

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Lessons in Our Lessening Humanity

Pop culture? We’ve got that down. REAL cultural activities? Another matter.

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Gender Hijacking: Employment, Leaning In, Blanking Out

Let’s stop pretending structural socioeconomic issues are about gender.

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How to Look at Things Differently: The Future is on the Periphery

Changing our perspective by looking to what is seemingly peripheral.

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Does Chronic Pain Cause Depression?

When he threw out his back and didn’t recover in three days, he changed. Unused to physical constraints of any sort (much less chronic pain) - his mood soured, his comments cut, his interests turned inward. He grew depressed. Reading habits focused on the workings of the spinal column, the lower five vertebrae, the SI joint, ligaments, musculature, the proper way to sit and stand. This wasn’t the man I knew, and the transformation … [Read More...]

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Out the Window

Life is full of good intentions, isn’t it? My recipe for good intentions typically includes a lengthy list of items. And on Sundays, that means reading, writing, work and... a bit of exercise. My good intentions today? Out the window. My usual schedule? Precisely the same fate. Would you be surprised to know that I was contemplating hopping a plane? (If only, if only, if only...) I daresay anyone who knows me … [Read More...]

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Unmailed Letter to an Old Friend

May 22, 2004 Dear S, At last, one of those rare weekends when L is here with D and M, and I have 48 hours to myself. Well, not entirely to myself, but chunks of time and that's pretty good. M is doing better, by the way, finally. It was heartbreaking for so long, but we're definitely on the upswing. Before I forget - a nice moment. M was able to persuade L to go with him to an art class, the Saturday class he … [Read More...]

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The Economics of Fedoras and Fussiness

By Brian Sorrell I fear that some may misapprehend my affection for the fedora, as its important functions might be lost on those who do not embrace the inestimable value of a well-crafted hat. When you select a fedora, go with fur felt, preferably with a leather sweat band and a high quality silk lining. At the back, just at the lip of the band, you will notice a little bow, which is a nod to the hatters who went mad … [Read More...]

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Standing on the Down Escalator

I've seen this statement retweeted numerous times. In a profile piece on The New York Times, Mayor Michael Bloomberg is quoted as saying "I don't have anything in common with people who stand on escalators." Given the lifestyle of the man in question - billionaire philanthropist, media mogul, former major of the Big Apple - you could say he doesn't have anything in common with many … [Read More...]

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Women Struggling With Success

This question is dogging me: Why do women still struggle with their own success? Or, as it appears in a very short post on Forbes with an accompanying video on leadership, "Do Women Hold Themselves Back From Success?" Citing a study and its findings that of "somewhat happy or happy women" who participated, "only one in four believe they are extremely or very successful," I'm bothered by … [Read More...]

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Knowing When to Quit

When you are raised to fight for what you want, to persevere against the odds, and you are taught that quitting is an act of weakness - knowing when to quit is a tough call. Doing it, even tougher. Naturally, context is important. "Quit while you're ahead" works fine for the non-gamblers among us who find ourselves up twenty at the slots or fifty at the Black Jack table. Quitting a job that you despise? … [Read More...]

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Listen First, Talk Second

I ran into this little gem recently: Listen first, talk second. It's a terrific reminder to all of us in relationships - or who want a relationship - dating, living together, married. It's excellent advice for any parent dealing with their child, especially if he or she is a tween or teenager. It's a smart strategy if you're negotiating, or sizing someone up as an employee, a team member, a supplier, a potential partner. How … [Read More...]

William Shakespeare

Feet on Ice, a Taste of Home

'Tis long since I did pen a verse or two, With couplets and a rhyme to make you smile, And yes this is a sonnet, that is true, Though horrid in such rusty, dusty style. Alas my week has kept me on my toes, With unexpected jaunts and throw-back tasks. Like what - you say - to make me turn from prose And ponder Pinot Noir in handy flasks? Maternal duties called (as did my son), "I think my foot … [Read More...]

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Why Opposites Attract

When I'm mad, you know it. When I'm worried, you know it. When I'm on top of the world, you can't miss it! As for my Man Friend? While I'm not convinced we're "opposites" exactly - there are many ways that we are different, not the least of which is the way we work, personal style, neatness around the house, and preferences for quiet time. So why is it that opposites attract, and if they do … [Read More...]

Couple Kissing

Kissing Bridge

Who doesn't remember their first kiss - when and where it took place, what his or her name was, how it felt - awkward, strange, wonderful? Who can forget the scene in Sex and the City when Charlotte is trying to reform the Very Bad Kisser? His hapless attempts to maneuver tongue and lips leave our heroine covered with slobber and nursing a bruised chin. We may not judge a book by its cover, but … [Read More...]

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Meal Planning

It's not even an hour into my work day and I'm popping Advil for a nasty headache, then glancing at my schedule for a time I can sit with a hot cloth over my eyes. They're strained. Heat helps. Twenty minutes later I'm loading up a filter for a third pot of coffee - early, even for me - hoping my elixir of choice will brighten my mood and magically restore my vision. Standing at the counter, I'm staring … [Read More...]

Planning Through a Maze

Plan A, Plan B, Plan C… Plan “Me?”

Everyone loves a backup plan - Plan B to your Plan A, and maybe a Plan C to your Plan B - especially if you're a believer in Murphy's Law (or a little bit paranoid). Recognizing the need for accommodating contingencies, this is the wisdom of "plan for the worst and hope for the best." In our work lives and our family lives, planning is useful, isn't it? Granted, some situations are tricky to manage. In particular … [Read More...]

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Men Are Different. (I Know, Right?)

"Panzer General? Yes, that's good," he says. He's talking to his son on the phone. I hear his 26-year-old's voice. It's deep, upbeat, energetic. "Yeah, we need to get back into those games," he says. He pauses. "Kursk? Right. Largest battle. 1943." I'm sitting next to him in bed contemplating Jane Austen, Revlon's Raven Red, my perfect peep-toes in a box gathering dust and set atop a stack of … [Read More...]

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“You’re Just Like Your…” (Fill in the Blank)

"Like mother, like daughter." How many times have you heard that expression or possibly used it yourself? It may be a compliment or it may be a neutral observation. Occasionally, it's a dig. "Like father, like son." What about that one? Have those four words passed your lips - with pride and affection? Other variations come to mind, especially when you're mad or overtired. "You're just like … [Read More...]

Coffee is Heart Healthy

Have Your Coffee (and Drink It, Too)

Who doesn't love their coffee? How many early mornings have you found yourself clutching the can of Folgers, joyful over Jamaican Blue Mountain, or impatient to indulge in the chickory-infused option picked up at Publix? Perhaps you're perked up by any variant in a shot or a mug, as long as it is strong, dark, and caffeinated. Once again, those of us who adore our coffee … [Read More...]

Proud Mature Man

James’ Father

By Scott Behson, PhD A few months ago, I attended a reception for Honor Students at my university. I had served as the mentor for the thesis of one of my favorite students (a promising young man named James), who will leave his mark on the world one day! It was a great night where we acknowledged the efforts and intellectual endeavors of our very best students, and I was in awe of … [Read More...]

Little Girl with Big Brown Eyes

Common Sense and (Early) Childhood Education

You may dispute the study that is referenced. You may dispute the comparisons made to our youngest and most vulnerable. However, it would surprise me if you dispute the logic: Children who grow up in neglect and despair are less likely to succeed in life, however you define that success. A recent article broaches this subject from several angles. Appearing in The Huffington Post, it addresses … [Read More...]

School Bus

School Bus Blues? Not Exactly.

You rise early to scan emails, to get a jump on your Monday checklists, to stand at Mr. Coffee where you place the filter, measure the French Roast, pour the water - then wait. You hear them before you actually see them: shiny yellow school buses rolling by your window. You remember your marigold-colored Number 2 pencils, neatly sharpened; your lemon and white hound's tooth suit … [Read More...]

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Permission to Daydream

It’s August. Are you on vacation? Are you planning some time off or have you already given your brain and body a period of rest? If you're anything like me, sadly, the answer to both those questions is no. Taking up the charge for regular reverie and daily downtime, the value of daydreaming is explored in an article at The New York Times. Ready to hear why permission to daydream is granted … [Read More...]