Category Archives: Sex

Age Rage

It isn’t that I don’t worry about it. I do. It isn’t that I won’t talk about it. I will. But age isn’t a simple topic, and if you’re a woman, you already know that. At least, you’ll know it … Continue reading

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Are We Raising Romantic Sons?

I was fascinated to read this Op-Ed piece in the New York Times by author and sociology professor Amy Schalet, who elaborates on survey data showing fewer American teens having sex at a young age. The surprise? We’re talking about … Continue reading

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Sexualité américaine, Politique de la Droite, et Disponibilité de Canards Vibrants

Link to English version (grosso modo) here. Est-ce que votre amour est concret ? Est-ce que votre amour est colossal ? Aimez-vous les objets ? Récemment, une anglaise, Amanda Whittaker, a capturé l’attention de la presse dans un cas de … Continue reading

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More Love (And Sex?) In The News

Think you have troubling taste in love objects? Apparently, the psychiatric condition known as objectum sexuality is an (as yet) overlooked target of recent legislative attempts to regulate reproductive and romantic rights. A British woman, Amanda Whittaker, recently made the … Continue reading

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Intimacy

Yesterday, a piece I wrote on separate vacations and managing relationships across distance was published at the Huffington Post. The comments and conversation were – as always – illuminating. I was speaking of my marriage to a large degree – … Continue reading

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My Future in Matchmaking

I am not a matchmaker. That said, like most women – yes, a generalization – I enjoy introducing people to each other, if they’re so inclined. I love seeing the bounce in a man or woman’s step, knowing it’s because … Continue reading

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Contraception. Personhood. Let Me Say This… About That.

I’m just trying to read my Sunday Times. And enjoy perusing my fave Must-See sites. But it’s impossible to avoid news coverage on contraception and the ongoing battle of wills and words over health insurance, abortion, personhood, and related subjects. … Continue reading

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When Flirting Goes Too Far

Have you spent any time online dating? Then you’ve probably dabbled in some innocent email or messaging flirtation. For that matter, you may flirt on Twitter, on Facebook, by texting or even talking. It’s the “social” in social media, right? … Continue reading

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Firm the Floor for French Amour?

You knew I couldn’t pass this up: “Why France Pays for Postpartum Women to Re-Educate Their Vagina.” Qu’est-ce que c’est? Why, it’s an article on health care coverage that concerns firming up the pelvic floor for more, well… amour. No, … Continue reading

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Kiss Me

Kiss me, she coos, and so you do. Kiss me, he whispers, and you inch closer. Kiss me goodnight, our little ones squeal. Kiss me goodbye, we ask of those we love. How long has it been since you requested … Continue reading

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