How do you define success?
As the remaining assets in my bank account dwindle, I’ve been – shall we say – a little stressed. And feeling like anything but a success. I look back at my days of setting goals, working hard to achieve them, and climbing the corporate ladder. I look at my marriage, and [...]
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There is always another side. Another story. On the other end of the phone line. Behind the deli counter. The sullen neighbor, taking out his garbage can. Or the truth behind the man or woman who disappears from your life, without explanation.
There are overworked employees at the big company, who screw up. Maybe they’re [...]
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Whatever it was, I always did what I was told. I was the quintessential good girl: I followed the rules from the time I can remember. I studied, I smiled, I won awards. I did not rebel. I lived with secrets, and I did not speak of them.
I followed the rules and never cheated, though [...]
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Yes, it’s that time of year. Dammit.
Pulling papers together. Searching through piles for receipts. Shuffling through forms and instructions to take care of taxes. Funny that we say things are “taxing” when they are endlessly wearying. As language usage, is that the chicken or the egg?
Tax season
When tax season rolls around, I stress. Okay. I’m [...]
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Is existence, in and of itself, a legitimate source of hope? Is any source of hope legitimate?
Alice Sebold, quote worthy of mention
I was reading from a collection of short stories last week. The Best American Short Stories, 2009, to be precise. It was an uncharacteristically jubilant burst of reading (no interruptions), and eventually, I [...]
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It seemed simple enough. Great grades, well-rounded, likable.
My son’s list of extracurricular activities included one team sport for a number of years, involvement in the arts, unique special interests, and a consistent willingness to help others. Garnering an honor or two with these attributes shouldn’t be an issue, right?
And yet last week, while filling out [...]
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Avoidance (Procrastination?)
Let’s be clear. Avoidance is not the same as procrastination. Avoidance is a fine art unto itself. A coping strategy. No 12-step program required.
I am avoiding the email account I use for “dating.” Thus, I don’t have to deal with the issue of Date Night Guy.
I am avoiding calling the company where I [...]
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Do you know what you’re worth? How do you ascertain your value – as a worker, a creative, a woman, a man, a spouse, a parent? As a member of society?
I’ll state this up front. This isn’t the usual morning musing. But hang in. It may be useful.
What is your job worth?
In layman’s terms, in [...]
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Need a dose of fabulosity? Get off the island.
Sometimes things happen. It’s serendipity. A fortuitous occurrence. Or as I like to think of it – unexpected good stuff. But it doesn’t happen often. And it rarely happens in isolation. You’ve got to reach out, in whatever way is possible.
Get off the island!
With teens in [...]
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Money makes the world go round?
Yesterday I enjoyed my Bravo TV fix while puttering around, as Millionaire Matchmaker reruns played in the background. I won’t say I wasn’t amused by some of the shenanigans, and experienced a gag reflex at others, but judging by the way this show nudges an odd assortment of characters into [...]
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