Yesterday began maliciously: my laptop’s functioning ground to a near halt. Everything from word documents to image files to internet access was stalled. Nightmare.

I spent a considerable chunk of the day running scans and updates, dealing with the frustration of not having what I needed on the backup computer.

So I resorted to paper. The pleasure of paper. Its sound, its texture, its tangibility. Its utility.


Having printed off some files the night before, I spread out reading material and myself; my eyes moved over the pages with ease, my notes were fluid, my markings jotted energetically. The quiet of thinking with paper in my hands yielded greater focus, and results that came with less of a struggle.


By evening, I searched through a large bag for the few gifts that I will send. I selected a roll of shiny foil from a bin with various papers. I wrapped. I felt good holding the material between my fingers, feeling its cool surface, pressing the creases neatly, and appreciating the tidy packages dressed in finery.

How lovely wrapping papers are. How carefully we can cover an object – or ourselves – with small attentions.

Thank you

Someone extended me a professional service not long ago. Something important, to do with my health. Something that I could not afford. I made the time to offer a thank you in the proper way – unearthing a box of stationery, its textured cards, writing out my thank you in careful cursive. Dear You Who Help.


Recalling the knock on the door and then the bell, recalling the strangers charged with a vindictive mission, recalling the fear on my sons’ faces, recalling papers served in biting disregard for decency, recalling my own fear each time I went to the mailbox, recalling the envelopes from attorneys’ offices and the thick packets of glaring white pages with their incomprehensible scripts of causes and demands, recalling the strangulation of legalities that cost me years of peace of mind: I know that paper can wage war.

Paper is Switzerland, you say. Neutral territory. But ink can spread its poison across borders. Paper carries the message we emblazon on its surface, and press into its flesh.


By late last night, I wearied of the television and the screen in general, I wearied of the hum of electricity, I longed for the pleasure of a good read. I searched for a paperback purchased months ago – it promised an intriguing story and clever characters. I was disappointed; the writing was poor, and I quickly set the book aside.

Blank page

Sometimes, there is nothing so terrifying as the blank page. Or the blank screen.

You write, you write, you write; words flutter around in your head and won’t arrange themselves into meaningful measures, plot evades capture, and strings of letters to describe, to explain, to motivate, to praise, to connect – all yield their willingness to cooperate. Instead, the blank page answers with its silence.

You try your journal with its dog-eared corners and imperfect paper, with its heft and familiarity; you hope its kindness will lubricate the writing machinery.


You crave an orchestration of words to uplift your own. You marvel that a thank you by the hand holds so much presence. You hope that wrapping in its festive colors will entice the eye. You push away the memories of legal papers, imagining a future that allows only for happy news.

You hope for a day of documents in which paper will be an option and not a necessity, a day of words filling the screen, references just a click away, concepts that flow – the virtual page or the actual one – the ready recipient. You live and die by the pen as they say; and equally, a medium to contain its requisite functions.

© D A Wolf



  1. says

    I love the way the pen glides on the paper. I also fear the blank page. It’s so daunting sometimes, my mind not knowing how to direct the pen. But there is an undescribable goodness in paper and pen. I love stationery and thank you cards and although I fear it, the blank fresh page of paper is a welcome respite in the land of technology.

  2. says

    I’m with you and Rudri: I am a sucker for pen and paper. I love stationery stores, the smell of the ink and the heft of the stock.

    I also love the printed word. Even though I am a voracious reader, I have never been tempted by a Kindle or an iPad for reading books. There is something about the visceral connection between fingertip and page that I never want to give up.

  3. says

    For me there is nothing better than pencil and paper, except maybe the perfect, fluid pen.

    I like how you tied all these things to the single subject of paper. Very nicely done.

  4. says

    I love paper. All kinds of paper. I love thank you notes, wrapping paper, notebooks, and pens. All of it. I love to scrapbook and create with patterened paper. Delicious, wholesome!

  5. BigLittleWolf says

    Believe me – I love my laptop (especially when it’s humming along), but that doesn’t mean I don’t love paper, too. It’s tactile and humanizing. It looks like I have plenty of company in this particular pleasure!

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